Da KInky Kid SpeaksDa KInky Kid SpeaksThis blog is to give insight, answer questions, and voice my opinion sexually. 
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TAKING IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL
2008-05-09 08:41:00 So you meet this great guy ?? you start dating?.. and you want to make this a more one on one situation?.. I am going to give you some ways to find out what it is he really wants?.. These tips (clues) will help you to determine what you should or should not do to make the relationship work?. For the both of you 1. Move slowly. Mind your self-esteem. Never chase after him, be fairly (moderately) active. Play hard to get, but don?t overdo, since men don?t enjoy of being turned down. To encourage a man to begin a serious relationship, one might need to convince him that you possess all the merits of his ideal partner. When a man is unwilling to enter into serious relationships with you, this may just mean you are not what he is seeking in a partner. 2. You should never ague, on the way to starting a relationship with a man. Let the sleeping dog lie. He is the winner and would definitely suffer if defeated. Men don?t like it when one points out his mistakes or tries... More About: Dating , Taking
R Kelly sex tape trial set to start
2008-05-09 08:32:00 ; &nbs p; &nb sp; ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; After six years of repeated delays, jury selection is set to begin in R Kelly 's trial on child pornography charges, prompted by a videotape allegedly showing the Grammy-winning R&B singer having sex with a girl as young as 13. Defense attorneys have filed a motion seeking to postpone the trial. The reasons for the motion are being kept secret, but it comes as publicity surrounding the case heats up and some media speculate about who might testify. When the trial gets under way, prosecutors will have a unique challenge: the alleged victim, now 23, says it ... More About: Start , Trial , R Kelly
05-07-08
2008-05-08 00:46:00 Attraction is beyond our will or ideas sometimes. Quote of the day More About: Quote Of The Day
What is sexy
2008-05-08 00:41:00 WHAT IS SEXY TO YOU? IF YOU ASK A MILLION PEOPLE THAT QUESTION NO ONE WILL HAVE THE SAME ANSWER BECAUSE EVERY ONE HAS THEIR OWN DEFINITION OF WHAT THEY THINK SEXY IS?.. SOME PEOPLE THINK SEXY IS HAVING A GREAT BODY?. WHERE OTHER WILL SAY THAT BEING SEXY IS AN ATTITUDE? I AM A PLUS SIZE (16) YOU CAN?T TELL ME I AM NOT SEXY?.. I KNOW IT AND OTHER PEOPLE CAN SEE IT?. I ASKED ONE PERSON AND THEY SAID ?Essence...sensuality...softness of touch...emotion...movement...enticing someone...confidence...just the whole aura? I BELIEVE THAT IT HAS TO DO WITH SELF CONFIDENCE?.. AN ATTITUDE NOT NECESSARILY HOW YOU LOOK?? MY SONS FATHER IS NOT ATTRACTIVE TO ME?. BUT I THINK HE IS SEXY?. HE IS A MAN IN HIS FEATURES HIS WALK HIS DEMEANOR AND I THINK THAT?S HOT?. THAT HAS TO DO WITH HIS CONFIDENCE?. I AM SOMETIME S INSECURE ABOUT MY SIZE?. BUT I KNOW THAT I AM SEXY SO ITS OKAY? I KNOW IT SOUNDS WEIRD BUT IT?S LIKE LIKING TO GET FUCKED BUT DON?T NEED... More About: Sexy
THE SPOON
2008-05-07 14:29:00 Spoon sex position. This position is called spoon because the position is visually analogous to stacked spoons. There is a certain asymmetry here, because men can spoon women, but women can't really spoon man. Spooning is also good if the penis is going into the female's ass hole. More About: Spoon
10 REASONS TO DATE A SINGLE DAD
2008-05-07 14:23:00 I know you all are tired of me?. But now, that I am dating again? I have been meeting a lot of single dads? Single dads are a different breed than single men, in a good way. A lot of great qualities come from single parenting, like being mature, responsible, caring, understanding, patient, and kind. A single guy might have some of these qualities but it truly a difference. It is nothing sexier than a single guy interacting with his children? If you are lucky enough to come across a single father and are not sure if you are ready to do that. I have so reasons why you might want to think about it again. I was in a relationship with a man who was not in a position to be a father to his children and it bothered him that he interacted with my children every day? He was not bad to my kids? and my kids adored him but he brought this issue up more than once.. We are no longer together because I am not rushing to get married but I like to date men that maybe o... More About: Dating , Reasons
10 REASONS WHY HE'S STILL SINGLE
2008-05-07 13:54:00 TEN Reasons why he is still single?. 10. No job, No car &n bsp; 9. He?s a VIRGIN 8. He wears more jewelry than his date? Unless he is 50 Cent? he should not have more jewelry than his date. ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; ; 7. He likes to bake?.. 6. He would rather dance with his male friends than a pretty woman?. HMMMM 5. He Gossips 4. He wears bowties and he is not a Muslim 3.His eyebrows are arched 2. He knows all the type designers 1. He has shit stains in his draws?.. ... More About: Dating , Single
Is he dating potential
2008-05-07 13:21:00 WHAT QUALIFIES AS DATING POTENTIAL? BEING THAT I AMIN THE DATING SCENE? I BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE CERTAIN THINGS THAT YOU LOOK FOR IN A MAN? I WAS OUT LAST NIGHT AND THIS GUY CLAIMED THAT HE FEELS LIKE WOMEN STAKE THEIR CLAIMS TO HIGH. I DISAGREED I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT ANYTHING YOU SEEK IN A PARTNER YOU CAN GET. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERY ONE?. Now if you meet a man and off back you think he is a liar?. Why would you continue to talk to him???? A GUY WITH POTENTIAL WOULD NOT START OFF LYING? RIGHT? Is a guy with a degree more important, or a guy who can keep a job? These things help affect his POTENTIAL?? How many times has he been in jail? What was he in jail for?.? Does he scare you? ALL OF THESE THINGS HELP DETERMINE HIS POTENTIAL? Does he do drugs? What kind? Are you going to do them with him? HMMMMMM??. ; &nbs p; ... More About: Dating
He may be a player
2008-05-06 15:14:00 Here are the signs that indicate that he is a player: 1. No matter where you go, it seems like there are girls who know him and who they must speak to him. Most of them greet him with a hug or even a kiss on the cheek (and they'll do this right in front of you!). 2. When these girls (or other guys, even) show up, he always calls you his "friend" or uses some other term that tells people that you are not his WOMAN. 3. Your friends think he is a player. Often, women ignore the advice of their closest friends, especially when it comes to men. However, if they're saying he is a player, he just might be -- keep your eyes wide open. 4. He will not commit to you. I'm not talking marriage or living together. He won't even commit to exclusively dating, but yet he claims you are the only one for him. 5. You see him out with other girls (whom he claims are just friends) when he said he was too busy to go out with you. 6. He doesn't introduce you to many of his friends. This is proba... More About: Dating , Player
aRE YOU WORTH BEING loVED
2008-05-06 10:31:00 They say a good man is worth being loved. ; But than why do people all the time fall for wrong men and women? Moral qualities of a person of course mean a lot but when we love one we usually can?t define and give a name to that something special in that person that makes us feel this way. Love is an uncontrollable feeling, we can never predict who will be the next or if they will even be worth it. Wouldn?t it be a lot easier if we listed all the negatives and positives that we see in the beginning and just decided hey I am not interested? We all like and in the end love the people who differ, by their personalities, who have that sparkle in them. Who make us tingle?. If you want people, both men and women, to love you ? start learning how to communicate. Learn how to be pleasant , nice, easy-going, but not too obstructive, learn to be a good listener, because both women and men would prefer speaking of thems... More About: Dating , Worth
How to have a happy relationship
2008-05-04 20:42:00 I have to come to realize that if you do not have values, you will never have good relationships. You must know who you are, what you believe in, and what you want in relationship. Know Who You Are - You are who you are. You have essentially been this person your entire life. You are NOT what you do for a living. That is simply how you make money. You are a person with thoughts, dreams, hopes, and fears. If you really don't know who you are, you should sit down and write out a description of yourself. You can include your physical attributes, but that is only part of who you are. Write down all the things that are important to you, in any order. Don't leave anything out, even things you may consider to be flaws or faults. Once you have a better grasp on who you are, you can get on to having meaningful relationships. Know What You Believe In - Everybody believes in something. I'm not talking about just your religious or your political beli... More About: Dating , Relationship , Happy
So you want to be a Sugar Baby
2008-05-04 11:53:00 So you want to be a Sugar Baby ?. You may wonder why a woman would choose a life such as this. Or maybe you wonder if you have what it takes to get a sugar daddy for yourself. While there is no dictionary definition for the term ?sugar baby,? it is usually used to describe a woman who is getting financial assistance from an older man?generally in return for intimate attention. I have been noticing younger guys also seeking sugar babies?.. Many sugar daddies prefer very young women (under 35), but that is not always the case. Believe it or not the majority of sugar babies are not model gorgeous. Neither are they the perfect size 2 with platinum blonde hair. In fact, you will find sugar babies come in every size, shape, color, and background imaginable. What does a sugar baby look like? As I said, sugar babies come in all shapes and sizes. A sugar baby may be beautiful, run-of-the-mill average, or the girl next... More About: Dating
Online Dating Questions
2008-05-03 21:54:00 When meeting someone online?. What is the right way to approach a particular subject? Especially since you all have never met. The first is a list of question to ask your potential dates are to decide whether or not you?d like to meet. They are meant to establish any non-negotiable social, financial, or spiritual/religious issues that, if you knew them in advance, would prevent you from going out with this person in the first place. If you like men with jobs?. Make sure this person has one? HELLO? Remember people do lie?. But people you meet on the street lie as well?. Fill them out? Most online dating services ask about these areas already, it?s still good to address them a bit more deeply when you know the issue is particularly meaningful for you. I have spoken with men who said they had Master Degree?s and did not even finish high school. Some good questions to ask?. Remember you have to be willing to answer these same questions? ... More About: Questions , Dating , Online Dating , Online
Men Be Real
2008-05-03 21:26:00 Men Be Real Last week I wrote about men and how they have been coming to me with some of the weakest script. I do not know where they are getting there information from , but I know they need to go back and get some help?. Anyway today I want to talk about men being real? This subject might be intended for some ladies as well. Be real?.. I am 34 years old?. I have never been one to sleep around but our time and era is somewhat different from that of our parents and our grandparents? I am not a virgin? I have 2 kids and have had more experience that that but hey?? I know that when I decide to get into a relationship I am real about what I want and what I am willing to give?. I am not out here just having sex with any man that finds me to be attractive? I savor my flavor??. Anyway I have come across to many men who are not real about what they want? They will say they want a relationship so they can get to that next level but in reality they are not interested in ... More About: Dating
Finger ME
2008-04-28 12:13:00 Using your fingers on a woman's coochie can reap amazing results -- given that you do it right. Of course, it's up to you to figure out exactly what your particular woman prefers when it comes to speed, tempo and amount of fingers. Also remember every woman does not like to be fingered? So pay attention to her body language? If she squirms too much away from you it may be uncomfortable to her? So today I am going to tell you a few ways you can use your fingers. Make sure she is already in the mood before you go and try to shove your fingers in her? Ok Fellas! The rubber The clitoris is the place to be for most women. When she's wet enough, or you put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in circular motions. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At... More About: Finger
2 GOOD 2 BE TRUE
2008-04-24 21:58:00 I myself do not believe there is a such thing as a MAN who is TOO GOO TOO BE TRUE. If so ?.. Where do they hang out in CHICAGO? A man who is considered too good to be true? is one with looks, wealth, and status all on their side. I do believe there are some men out there that got it made? ALL AROUND THE BOARD? But are they too good to be true?.. LUCKY IF THEY MEET ME!!!! Ok? For real?. Women are most likely to settle for a good looking man with an average kind of job over the well-to-do man. Why might women shun Mr. Perfect in lieu of Mr. More Average? Most women believe a man with a high status is more likely to be unfaithful. No I have lately ran across some medium to low status men?. They cheat too? Some do not want a man who is better looking than them. Some women want to be the pretty one in the relationship. Some ALPHA males (will write about later) are considered to be of a higher status than most men. What I have ran across men who pretend to... More About: Dating , True , Good
TOUCH MY
2008-04-24 00:22:00 Kino (from "kinesthetics") is touching. In general, mammals like to be touched, and females in particular usually really like it. There are two types of kino associated with pickup, social and sexual. Social kino is touching without immediate sexual intent, and works to let people feel familiar with each other. Social kino allows much easier transition to sexual kino. Once a woman who is attracted to you is comfortable with you socially touching her in public, she will be much more comfortable with you touching her sexually in private. Females have different levels of comfort with being touched by unknown males. Some females are comfortable being touched a lot by men they do not know well, some are uncomfortable being touched a little by men they do know well. In all cases related to pickup, kino can be used to generate, measure and maintain attraction. For example, an outgoing female who socially calibrated may well initiate kino on her own. This will often be an ... More About: Touch
How to approach a woman
2008-04-23 19:40:00 I have been going out a lot lately?. I?m single AGAIN?.. It?s all good though? Except men are so weak with their approach? I have had older guys and younger guys come up to me with some of the weakest lines in the world? I am going to give the fellas some things to do to help you better approach a woman? Please fellas if you know that your game is weak? Don?t be afraid to use some of these great ideas I am about to share with you? Observe Something?. If she is at the bar and you see she drinks the same type of drink? Say something about that? If she has on a perfume that you like?. Or don?t like COMPLIMENT her?. Make your comment to the situation at hand it comes off more natural?. Smile This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport. &... More About: Woman , A Woman
Door Way to Heaven
2008-04-23 09:43:00 The doorway to heaven is another one of those positions that make you look good. It allows you the pleasure of sweeping her entire body with your gaze. She lies on her side facing the camera or mirror while you come up behind her. Your mouth is at the apex of her thighs and your head is angled down, while your legs rest somewhat parallel to her back. She is completely spread with one leg lifted above your shoulder. More About: Heaven , Door
04-23-08
2008-04-23 09:36:00 God gave men a penis and a brain, but not enough blood to use both at the same time. ; &nbs p; &nb sp; Quote of the Day More About: Quote Of The Day
HPV in the anal area
2008-04-23 09:31:00 Sexually active women have a 50% chance of contract the virus that causes cervical cancer at some point in their lives. Anal infections of human papillomavirus, known as HPV, appear to be as common as cervical infections, according to an article published in the April issue of the Journal of Infectious Diseases. Half of the women in the multi-year study acquired new anal HPV infections during the trial period. Counting women infected at the start of the study, roughly 70 percent of women tested positive for anal HPV during clinic visits. That's similar to known risks for cervical HPV infection, said Brenda Y. Hernandez, a lead author of the study and an assistant professor at the Cancer Research Center of Hawaii in Honolulu. "What we're seeing here is likely to be comparable to what is seen among primarily young, sexually active women on the U.S. mainland," Hernandez said. The suggestion that the risk of anal HPV infection is as common the risk of cervical infection ... More About: Area
Romance on the weeknights
2008-04-16 12:08:00 Most men think of romance differently than women do. It doesn't necessarily come as naturally to men as it does for women. But keep in mind that most men want to make their partners happy. They may need for you to communicate your needs to them more directly throughout the year. Try these tips to increase your weekly romance and you'll be smiling all year long! 1. The biggest killer of romance is not enough time. At the end of a busy day you wind up in the same bed and comment, "Gee, when did you get here?" If Publisher's Clearing House called and said your million-dollar check was ready, you'd make the time to pick it up. Make the time to make your relationship worth a million dollars. 2. Eat dinner together as often as you can. Couples who eat together create a ritual of talking and connecting over a meal. This frees up the rest of the evening for other romantic interludes. 3. The work week is full of unexpected plans. Remember when trying to add some ... More About: Romance
Find your erotic side
2008-04-16 11:06:00 ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; ; &nbs p; Who are you in bed? A bashful woman? A buck-wild beauty? Well, whoever you are, push your sexual boundaries for increased pleasure. "Stepping outside your comfort zone in bed may make you feel vulnerable, but it can also create more intimacy with your partner. It could be fun! Here's how any woman can take sex to the next level. You may have never used handcuffs but have fantasized... More About: Find , Erotic , Side
a libido boost for women
2008-04-16 10:35:00 A drug that could do for women what Viagra has done for men is being tested at the University of Virginia. The drug is a testosterone-laden ointment called LibiGel and it's intended to boost the libido of women who have lost interest in sex. It will be prescribed at UVa in coming months to women who are suffering from hypoactive sexual desire disorder. The condition is believed to affect one-third of American women. ; &nbs p; ; More About: Women , For Women , Boost
SEMEN MAKES WOMEN HAPPY
2008-04-14 15:57:00 Psychologists from the State University of New York have conducted a study that concludes that semen is an anti-depressant. Researchers believe this may be the result of women absorbing mood altering hormones contained within CUM through the vagina. The research team assessed the happiness of almost 300 female students using the Beck Depression Inventory (a standard measure of mood assessment) and divided them into groups according to who used condoms and who didn't. Those who regularly didn't use condoms were the happiest, although this declined the longer the subject went without sex. Women who used condoms were more depressed, but length of time since sex didn't alter their mood rating. Researchers hint this could mean that semen is addictive. They also claim that they have looked at all alternative explanations for the differences in mood (such as strength of relationships, other contraceptive methods, and personalities) and say their evidence holds up - even if the data i... More About: Happy
04-09-08
2008-04-09 21:21:00 Smile... it's the second best thing to do with your lips More About: Quote Of The Day
I'm going to the COUNTRY for LOVE
2008-04-09 09:46:00 Women in city areas are more likely to be separated or divorced than their country counterparts, research has found. University of Adelaide geography professor Graeme Hugo said 2006 census figures showed there was a higher proportion of divorced or separated women than men in major cities. In populations of more than 100,000 people, 12.5 per cent of women were from broken marriages, compared to 9.6 per cent of men. Meanwhile, rural areas with less than 200 people had the lowest proportion of divorced or separated women - 9.8 per cent of women compared to 12.8 per cent of men. Country towns with between 200 and 1000 residents had the most even proportion of divorced or separated men and women, with 12.6 per cent and 12.8 per cent respectively. But Professor Hugo said it was difficult to determine whether the rate of divorce was lower in the country because there were no statistics. "One of the things you could hypothesis here is after divorce or separation in the rural areas, m... More About: Love
They like em thick
2008-04-09 09:22:00 There has been a survey and it tells you what you already know: when it comes to women, the vast majority of blokes prefer them well rounded. It seems their ideal girlfriends are pneumatic, not flat. They'd rather negotiate sweeping curves than sharp shoulders. They like women buxom, bosomy and bountiful. According to the figures, the jury is in: men will choose a Rubenesque size 14 over a stick-figure size 8 when it comes to their ideal woman. Admittedly, the science could be seen as somewhat superficial. It is based on an online survey ? not the most accurate means of obtaining information ? of 60,000 men conducted by men's magazine FHM. The relevant issue is published tomorrow. The mag found that when shown pictures of three bikini-clad models, four out of five men said they were more attracted to the size 12 and size 14 models than the model who was a slimmer size 8. The majority of votes went to the size 12 woman, with 41% saying that she had the body shape of th...
Had a baby by her daddy
2008-04-09 09:14:00 A South Australian woman has given birth to her father's son after the couple had sex. John and Jenny Deaves reunited 30 years after Mr Deaves separated from Jenny's mother. Jenny was 31 and just two weeks after meeting, father and daughter had sex. "John and I are in this relationship as consenting adults," Mrs Deaves told the Nine Network tonight. "We are just asking for a little bit of respect and understanding." Their nine month old daughter Celeste, shown on TV, appears fit and healthy. Mrs Deaves said soon after reuniting with her father she began to see him as a man first and her father second. "I was looking at him, sort of going, oh, he's not too bad. "Like you might look at a man across the bar at a nightclub." Mrs Deaves brought two children, Samantha and Alex, into the relationship after splitting from her former partner. Mr Deaves admitted that he "initially" thought having sex with his daughter was wrong. "Emotions take over, as people no doubt realize, t... More About: Baby , Daddy
Beyonce & Jay Z Tie the Knot
More articles from this author:2008-04-07 09:33:00 Beyoncé and Jay-Z are did not only getting married in New York on April 4, but they are also tying the knot in France! &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; An insider says, ?It?s going to be May 4 in France. They?re obsessed with the number four and call it their lucky number.? More About: Beyonce , Knot 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 |
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